{"id":1066173,"date":"2024-06-20T17:59:29","date_gmt":"2024-06-20T23:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/awmi2.wpenginepowered.com\/?post_type=browse-teaching&p=1066173"},"modified":"2025-10-06T15:34:32","modified_gmt":"2025-10-06T21:34:32","slug":"as-i-have-loved-you","status":"publish","type":"browse-teaching","link":"https:\/\/www.awmi.net\/browse-teaching\/as-i-have-loved-you\/","title":{"rendered":"As I Have Loved You"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Jesus\u2019 Final Command<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagine the night before Jesus\u2019 crucifixion. He has communion with His disciples and washes their feet. He reveals that Judas is the one who will betray Him. He tells the disciples that He is leaving and they can\u2019t come. Then He speaks these words:<\/p>\n

A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all <\/em>men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.<\/em><\/p>\n

John 13:34\u201335<\/p>\n

By virtue of the fact that this would be, in part, Jesus\u2019 final words to the disciples, they had to be very important. And notice that what He said to them was in the form of a command, not a suggestion.<\/p>\n

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By virtue of the fact that this would be, in part, Jesus\u2019 final words to the disciples, they had to be very important. And notice that what He said to them was in the form of a command, not a suggestion.<\/p>\n

I am sure that everyone reading this has read or heard this passage many times. But in reality, most do not think that Jesus\u2019 command is something they can actually do. It\u2019s a goal that they may strive to reach with gritted teeth, but usually with little success.<\/p>\n

It begs the question\u2014would Jesus give His disciples a command He knew they couldn\u2019t keep? The answer is obviously no, so why is it so hard for us today to love other people? Could it be this simple\u2014we can\u2019t give what we don\u2019t have?<\/p>\n

God Loves You Unconditionally<\/strong><\/p>\n

The majority of churches are teaching that God\u2019s love for us is conditional. They are misrepresenting His love, and it is one of the main reasons that we as Christians are so judgmental and harsh toward other people. Consciously or not, we tend to treat people the way we believe God is treating us.<\/p>\n

We must understand that God does not love us because we are lovely. He does not love us because we read the Bible, go to church, pay our tithes, or do our best to keep the command to love others as He loved us. The truth is, He loves us without conditions. That\u2019s huge!<\/p>\n

I grew up in a Baptist church where all that was preached was the message of evangelism. They made me feel like I had to pay God back for saving me by leading others to Jesus. It became such a part of me that I used to believe that the sole purpose for our existence here on this earth is to lead somebody else to Jesus.<\/p>\n

Then the Lord spoke this to me: \u201cIf evangelism is the sole purpose for your existence, then what about Adam and Eve? They had no one to lead to the Lord, no Sunday school class to teach, no one to pray for, and no physical need of any kind.\u201d<\/p>\n

The answer can be found in Revelation 4:11:<\/p>\n

Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created.<\/em><\/p>\n

The original purpose of all creation was to give God pleasure. And that is still God\u2019s purpose. Adam and Eve were created for fellowship with God. He wanted someone to love and for them to voluntarily love Him back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s About Relationship, Not Religion<\/strong><\/p>\n

God\u2019s purpose for creating human beings was all about relationship. But religion has succeeded at turning us from human beings<\/em> into human doings<\/em>. When that becomes the focus, we begin to tie God\u2019s love for us to something that we do for Him. I did! But that was never His plan.<\/p>\n

Over the years, I have prayed for thousands of people. The vast majority of those who come forward begin by telling me about their spiritual lives: \u201cI\u2019ve been praying, fasting, reading the Bible, and attending church, but I\u2019m still not healed.\u201d They don\u2019t realize it, but they just told me why they aren\u2019t healed. They\u2019re pointing to what they are doing instead of what Jesus has done.<\/p>\n

The same is true about our relationship with the Lord and with other people. We have come to believe that God loves us and acts on our behalf based on our performance. Therefore, we hold others to the same standard\u2014our love for them is in direct proportion to their works, or how they treat us.<\/p>\n

Romans 5:8 says, \u201cBut God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

God\u2019s love has never been nor ever will be conditional. He loved you at your worst, and most Christian churches would agree with that initially. They believe you are saved by grace through faith, no matter your history, but that is often where grace stops and religion starts. And religion always puts the emphasis on the external.<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019re saved, religion says you must live holy, and the evidence of your holiness will likely be judged by the standards of your church: do you dress the right way, do you say the right things, are you leading people to Jesus, and, most important, are you tithing\u2014just to give a few examples.<\/p>\n

God If Focused on Your Heart<\/strong><\/p>\n

That is not how God sees us. God looks on the heart. First Samuel 16:6\u20137 says this:<\/p>\n

And it came to pass, when they were come, that he looked on Eliab, and said, Surely the Lord\u2019s anointed <\/em>is before him. But the Lord said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for <\/em>the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.<\/em><\/p>\n

Samuel was going to choose Eliab to replace King Saul because of the outward appearance. But God was not looking on the outside. The church today is judging believers in the same way. You might carouse in secret on Saturday night, but as long as you come to church the next morning well kempt and well dressed with a check in your hand, you\u2019re accepted because you have the appearance of holiness.<\/p>\n

Under the New Covenant, God is still concerned about your actions and behavior. It\u2019s not okay to lie, to steal, to commit adultery, or any other sin. However, He knows that those are nothing more than the byproduct of a relationship\u2014or the lack of one\u2014with Him. So, He is focused on your heart.<\/p>\n

As long as you believe God is judging you according to your performance, you will never fully receive His love. Love is a decision, and God decided to love you even though you didn\u2019t deserve it. There is nothing you can do to earn it or deserve it, so just receive it as a free gift.<\/p>\n

Once You Receive God\u2019s Love You Can Share It<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you understand how much God loves you, it becomes easy to love others. And when you love others as He has loved you, your behavior will change toward them. If you loved your mate the way that Christ loves you\u2014unconditionally\u2014you would never commit adultery. If you loved your neighbor as Christ loves you, you would never steal from them or bear false witness against them.<\/p>\n

How does the world know that we are disciples of Christ? John 13:35 says, \u201cBy this shall all <\/em>men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Did you know that the first-century church evangelized the known world in thirty years? They didn\u2019t have television, the internet, smart phones, or texting. But they loved one another, and that love was so evident that it attracted people like honey attracts bees.<\/p>\n

In Matthew 22:36, a Pharisee who was a lawyer asked Jesus this question: \u201cWhich <\/em>is the great commandment in the law?\u201d<\/em> Jesus answered him in Matthew 22:37\u201340:<\/p>\n

Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second <\/em>is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.<\/em><\/p>\n

The Pharisees wanted Jesus to name the most important \u201cThou shalt not.\u201d Instead, Jesus spoke, \u201cThou shalt.\u201d<\/em> Many believers are still living under the Old Testament Law mentality. They are trying to earn the love of a God who already made the decision to love them unconditionally.<\/p>\n

Once you begin to understand how much God loves you, love will flow out of you toward others like rivers of living water. Ultimately, Jesus is the answer, and His love for you is the key.<\/p>\n

I hope the truths discussed in this article have blessed you. For more on the love of God, please visit my website for my free series called As I Have Loved You<\/em>. I pray that these materials will bless and minister to you.<\/p>\n

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